2 - Eat, drink, man, and wife!

She took over on Saturday, and Sunday she comes in and she's eager to cook a feast. I say "hey, can't depend on you', so I cooked something else. She could save that food. Monday, today, she cook an elabroate tapas meal. She has done this before where she disappears, comes back and fix this meal with all the fixins and pottery, and then she stops cooking again. The funny thing about this is that we are on a she cooks, I cook rotation.

You want to cook? Huh!

I walked into the kitchen with a talisman of coffee for lubrication and got a weird that's going work.

Then she stated that she was cooking. Huh, we've shown that we can't depend on you to cook. Thus we should never depend on her cooking. "Look I'm cooking tapas tonigth." Okay, go ahead but I have something else I'm going do for food. Think about it, after her disappearing for another week in a row I am not going to not make arrangement.

Sleep Schedule: 30 Aug 09

Wednesday - me; Friday - her; -Saturday - me.

Last night and talking

See, last night you wanted me to stop talking and tonight you don’t say anything. As we discussed, you never came back to a subject. You leave it out there to hang, and never resolve anything. That same situation comes up again and thing get worst. The preferred approach is to sleep on an issue and come back to it later.

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It would work if there was follow-up, but there never is any.

I'm outa here - for the weekend!

For the second week in a row she took the weekend off.

No ride, again.

We spoke about it again: riding. We were laying there in the bed last night and we planned to ride bikes together in the morning. We wake up, she left this morning, didn't say anything and didn't take her phone, when I aggresively asked her about not taking the phone - because I was waiting on her - she said we should ride separately.

We'll never ride together. Riding makes the list of things we don't do together.

The German wife is back.

While in Germany we would go through this drill here she would workout about three times a month. When ever she wanted to get mmore attention she would go workout and then announce that she had. That happened for at least a year.

At some point she recognized that I would be nicer to her if she tried to workout.

Will she's doing it again. After telling me last month that she hates working out; and she doesn't want to go to the gym because of many reasons. She is doing her sporactic back and forth while at the same time gaining weight and garth. - JR